Would It Make You Uncomfortable If A Seller Was Home
While You Were Viewing The House ?
SELLERS GO AWAY! 73%
SELLERS PLEASE STAY! 27%
WOW! These answers really suprised me. I was CONVINCED that the overwhelming vote would be YES for this question. As a realtor it makes me uncomfortable because part of my job is to point out the problems I see in a home, or things that would need to be changed to suit my buyer, and when the sellers are home you don't have the freedom to comment on the need to remove their godawful green countertops or bright pink carpet.
A couple of weeks ago, I was showing a home that really smelled. I mean REALLY! There was no way that my clients didn't notice it, so instead I just put it out there. "This house smells."
It would have been much nicer if someone hadn't been sitting in the other room out of site listening to me say that their house smelled.
I doubt that when i left that guy thougth to himself "gee, thanks, I didn't know my house smelled and maybe that's why it isn't selling. Why, I'm just going to run right out to the store and buy some Febreeze and open some windows. " Nope, we all left feeling mortified and I'm sure he just spent the rest of the day thinking about what a jerk I am. I mean, I AM a jerk, but I'm not THAT much of a jerk.
Also, there are legal implications and protection issues for a client as a seller that we need to be aware of as listing agents. When you see the comments below, you'll see that several of the NO voters liked the idea of being able to talk to the seller about the house. This is a BIG no-no for legal as well as strategic reasons.
1) The seller is not an expert. They may tell you that they were always planning on taking the wall down between the kitchen and dining room. you think this is a great idea, because the house is great for you otherwise, but that was the one thing keeping you from buying it... You do, and then find out you can't remove that wall afterall. If he hadn't made that suggestion, you never would have bought the house, and now you're stuck with a property you don't want...can you say lawsuit?
2) people lie. Yes, it's true. Although most people are honest and ethical, some people just lie. I remember one specific situation where I had a home listed and instructed my sellers to leave the house for the home inspection once it was sold. They chose not to take my advice. Two days before closing, the Buyer's lawyer called and informed us that there would be a $2000 holdback on closing! Why you ask? Because they claim that while they were at the house for the home inspection, they asked the sellers(my clients) if they would be leaving their drapes. (they were specifically not included in the agreement because they were taking them with them). According to the buyer, the seller had agreed to leave the drapes and rods for them but when they went for their final visit, they were removed. My clients claim never to have said any such thing, since they had always intended to take them to their new home, I believe them. The buyer just lied. But it tied up the closing and at the end of the day, just to get it to close so that they could get their money out for their new house, they had to settle for giving the buyer back $1000. All because they wouldn't go out.
3) People don't really care about you! When buyers ask you how you like the neighborhood, where are you moving to? Why are you moving there, etc, do you really think they care about you, a stranger, and your life plans? NO!! they are milking you for information. They want to know if the neighbors are jerks, or if your'e desperate to sell because you were supposed to be on the west coast 3 weeks ago. These are things they will use later to negotiate the price downward.
Of course, I'll be thinking about the results of this poll and how it may affect my advice to my clients about whether or not they can stay home for showings. I am a lot of things, but I am always willing to admit that I've been wrong and I certainly was when I thought it would make everyone as uncomfortable as it made their agent!
